Honest Simplicity

One in one out: it is a simple guideline which helps me avoid acquiring more stuff than I need or even want.  I’m not a perfect stickler for this rule, but I try to follow it often because I like the results it brings.  Besides keeping my belongings in check, it guards me from being a sucker for sale signs and trends.  It encourages contentment.  When I shop, I ask myself whether or not I’d be willing to replace something I already own with this new item.  The answer to that question determines whether or not it is truly worth the purchase.  Of course, down the road, I might change my mind about something I bought.  My tastes and needs change and when that happens, I don’t sweat it.  I no longer feel like I need to hold onto something just because I paid good money for it once.  That is a guilt-induced clutter trap and you should stay away from that kind of thinking.  Since adopting the habit of one in one out, I have regretted far fewer purchases.  This week, I bought a new pair of flip flops, but not on impulse.  I had a pair of flips already, but they are leather and I wanted a pair that could get wet when I water the garden, take my kids to the swimming pool, and for a upcoming trip to the beach.  Since I had a pair of shoes in mind which I could let go of, I bought the new pair, guilt free.  One new pair of shoes came into the house and another pair is ready to donate.  Easy peasy!